I am not a WOman, Who cares!!!

Woman- the most beautiful creation of God yet the most suffering soul on the earth. I wish its not true but it is unfortunately.

Let me just ask you a simple question- What comes to your grown up mind at first instance when you hear the word woman- Pretty, Sexy, Smart, so good looking, so beautiful.... that's it!! But what if I ask you if you too wanna be the same, huh? I don't think your reply would be affirmative. In-fact what's the big deal in not being a woman or just be the way you are. 

Some of you may wish to look genuinely beautiful like them or have those beautiful eyes or whatever. But can you merely imagine what a woman wants?? Is she herself happy to be the way she is or not. But who cares!!

In-fact the creator of all of us wouldn't have to make any kinda judgement on how the life should actually look like for the two faces he created- a man and a woman. And what he couldn't create was the RESPECT she utterly deserves. But who cares!!

Even if talk about stats only, India, despite having world's largest democracy, is the second unsafe place for a woman even before places like Saudi Arab, Iraq etc etc. The pace with which our technology is developing, the same pace is followed by crimes against woman and that too in a rising way. But who cares!!

My point here is not that what's the big deal in being a woman or not. But being a woman in India really sucks. And yes it does, thanks only to our Indian men. But who cares!!

But I do apologize that I am not a woman because she deserves better;

I do apologize because a Politician can overstep your honor with mere few words;

And of-course I do apologize because this cheap society has made her life even bitter.

And no matter you care about this or not. I really do feel that there is a need to re-think about a life which God always wanted her to be in and a life which she is supposed to have as well even if you are NOT A WOMAN.

For a Cause
Mandeep Singh

Will you marry a RAPED girl ???

Hasshhhh.... It looks like a shocker at first instance when we read the title of this post. I mean for a common guy like we are, it seems of no relevance. Doesn't it???

Daughter, the most beautiful creation of God especially for a mother when she holds her little arms in her palm when she enters her life dreaming at that time only for giving her all that would be possible in her limits.
But as the time passes away, a fear starts arising in her mind not of whether she will be an engineer or a doctor but of something that our mean brain can't even imagine of- The way she would be welcomed by this mean world of 21st century....

What's so strange in it?? That's what you all might be thinking as this is fear of every parent for his/her child. But strange is not of the fear for a daughter but of the way this world has started treating her. There are many incidents now a days of her being brutalized, sacked in dark, raped and finally left to die.

But life gets worst on her being raped. Even a girl being harmed by a knife for years wouldn't give her as much pain as one incident of such kind gives her for so many years she was supposed to live happily.An accused being caught and punished say for life imprisonment- That's it. Do we think her nightmare ends here only, Absolutely not. :(

In-fact worse come to her after that. Our so called BEAUTIFUL society treats her more brutally than the rapist himself. My words seems harsh but that's the bitter truth indeed.
She goes for studies- receives harsh words from mates
She goes for job- gets rejected being considered as part of minority;
She goes on streets- gets blamed for the incident that broke her completely

And finally when She feels to enter new phase of her life(Marriage)- undoubtedly she is again made realize that her painful nightmare was in-fact her own mistake only and nothing else, and a guy wouldn't hesitate saying these words to her no matter such words went in like a sharp knife attack to her feelings.

Don't you think there needs to be a change. Do we need to bring our humanity rise above all for all. We are not the system to punish that accused by law, we are not the police who can arrest the accused and we are no where near giving justice for that brutal crime for her- And that's what comes to our mind.

But but why do we forget we are humans. A human created by one GOD with same brains, same heart. Then where is the feel, the HUMANITY??
We cant save her unless that criminal confronts us. But we can hold her, give her a life she deserves to have and make her rise above all odds, can't we???

And that's what my thought of today is. Have a look at this video of Indian thinking and you will realize what the need of hour is....

For a CAUSE
Mandeep Singh